We are the Elka Family. We have been married for 17 years now and have three amazing kids.

We love Jesus. It's that simple.

People leave the church all the time because of deep hurt, becoming disillusioned with church leadership, spiritual abuse, or a multitude of reasons. We want you to know we understand. You are not alone.

Our main focus is reinforcing that God is not okay with what happened to you. You may have been mishandled but He would never mishandle you. He loves you far to much.

We're sharing our story and our journey and we hope it helps you with yours.

Perceptions and thoughts do not always end up being the truth. Unfortunately, this has caused much pain, misunderstanding, and broken relationships.

So, as a family, the Lord gave us some tools that have helped us move forward through great times and some of our most difficult times. It's not just about church hurt, it's about discipleship. The "how to" of getting through every day as we walk out our faith as followers of Christ.
It's not a new concept, just a new way to think about it. We hope it sticks in your head and helps you. It did for us.

We all struggle and face obstacles, whether it's as big as losing someone you love, being betrayed by someone close or as minor as having a terrible haircut. How do we face it (the challenge) head-on?

Maybe it's not even a problem. It could be taking something someone told you is true and making sure for yourself it is the truth. It takes time, it takes commitment, and it takes action. But, when you come out on the other side, you are stronger and able to stand firm in what you believe.

So, what is it in your life? And are you ready to Crosscheck It?